2022 is coming…(resolutions✨,etc.)

Hello Curious Readers, Today I’m talking about my resolutions for the next year 2022 which is already close and a short summary of this year. But before that I want to point out, don’t stress yourself to much about the next year. You don’t have to have a major glowup and you don’t have to get everything ready and done on which you’re working on. I don’t know you’re current life situation, so I can’t judge if you’re overworking yourself. But know that unrealistic goals kill your motivation. But more to motivation and everything that comes with it is in my previous post;)

Now let’s get started… A short summary of my year 2021:

Well, if to be honest I’m really proud of myself for being so strong 💪 in this year and keep moving forward even when it was the hardest. I changed a lot, I developed my personality more and am now more aware of the things I want to work on. I experienced a lot more areas and found the perfect getting out of my comfort zone place to settle. I found that a routine doesn’t work for me and just sets me in a stressful place where I have to do something. There are some things I still want to improve on and that I’m working on at the moment. But you know 2022 hasn’t started it yet and 2021 is not fully over. So let’s do the best we can but also pause if you need to relax. You’re strong and I know you can do it whatever you want to achieve!

My Bucketlist for 2022 (and my previous one):

So when it comes to setting goals for the new year I find it really easy to find ones that actually develop with time. As an example if I set the goal for learning fully how to sing in the next year, it will definitely take some time. But before we’ll actually take a look at my bucketlist for 2022, I want to quickly look at mine from 2021. I also made for this year a post a long while ago when 2021 just started. So let’s now look at what I wanted to achieve this year.

If you want to skip this snippet, go ahead if not then let’s dive into what my past self wrote…

Dear 2021,

I know that this letter to you is a little bit late but better late than never 😉

First I want to talk about last year (2020) for sure it wasn’t the best year at all with a lot of people suffering with their job and life.

But as I want to start 2021 with positivity I also want to look back at 2020 with positivity too.

I’m so grateful that I learned to get to know myself better and actually improved my soul.

I know that sounds kind of weird but in 2020 I learned that it’s okay to say no and that I don’t always have to feel okay. In 2020 my resolutions were that I don’t go too hard on myself all the time. I wanted to just relax in my freetime.

During the pandemic as I learned more about myself I started wondering what the future would bring. I started thinking about all these questions like:

What do I want to be? Where do I want to live?

So as all these questions went on my mind which was at first great because it’s pretty important to know your goal and thinking about the wayto get there, I got too stuck in the future.

I started living in the future and not in the present. For example I thought that If I set my clock five minutes before I would have more time, but instead I got stuck in the thought that i still have five minutes left. That’s what I want to change in 2021, I want to live in the present.

Aprecciate the ones you love. I’m also really afraid of loosing people that has also something to do with the future thing.

But for now 2021 is the year of honesty or whatever you want to call it, be true and honest to yourself, to the people you love and to people in general.

What do you think of it? I feel like I failed in some points on my bucketlist but that’s okay. I can’t expect from myself to fix my whole life in just one year. I admit that those goals may seem not that big to somebody else but yeah you know it can look really different on the other side. But at first let’s just discuss the whole thing:

Okay, it’s actually hard for me to find some freetime now. I know all those hobbies I kind of adopted to my life are in some way free time for me. But the thing is that I at the time find no time to relax and just be fully present in the moment. I’m always thinking about what the next thing is I have to do for this day. And if to be honest that’s really tiring. Sometimes it’s good to be in the future and the present at the same time. As an example when you’re setting goals you look in the future but at the same time stay in the present for actually achieving them. But the good thing is that I work really hard on myself to get better and I also take some rest days to get new energy for fulfilling my dream. Of course the things I do give me a lot of energy for example when I’m really passionate about something and it keeps getting me motivated.

Appreciating the ones I love. Yes, that is definitely one thing I learned this year. I am thankful for the loving moments with my family and friends for the big and the small ones. My family are the people who give me that happy feelings and are also the ones that helped me to develop my personality the most. I’m really thankful that I have them in my life.

Now how has this year of honesty been so far? Definitely sometimes a little bit frustrating. I feel like I’ve gotten more honest to the people who stand closest to me but I feel like that there is definitely some more space I can improve on.

That’s it so far from 2021.

My bucketlist:

1.Saying goodbye to people and things that are unhealthy to me

2. Being more outspoken, say what I have on my mind and let other people know my opinion

3. Continue dreaming about my life

4. Showing my talents to other people

5. Developing my personality more in new areas

6. Striving to be better but not the best

7. Living more for the small moments

8. Letting people go who don’t deserve me

9. Getting comfortable in areas I’m currently not and then finding new ways to get out of my comfort zone

10. Believing in myself even in the worst times

11. Appreciating the life that was given to me

So that’s it for today:)

What are your goals for 2022?

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Have a nice day and soon a beautiful new year of many opportunities,

En✨